When we think about language, we often imagine words, grammar, or vocabulary. But there's another side to communication — one that’s just as important: pragmatic language.
Pragmatics is the way we use language in social situations. It’s knowing how to take turns in conversation, how to change our tone depending on who we’re talking to, and how to read social cues like facial expressions or body language.
These skills don’t always come naturally to children — especially those with speech and language delays, autism, or ADHD. But the good news is: pragmatic language can be taught.
Pragmatic language includes:
These skills are vital not just for communication, but for building friendships, resolving conflicts, and being part of a group — whether in school, at the playground, or at home.
Some children may struggle with pragmatics without having obvious speech issues. Here are a few signs:
If you notice these signs, it doesn’t always mean there’s a problem — but it may be helpful to consult a speech-language pathologist for support.
The best way to build social language is through playful, low-pressure activities. Here are a few that work beautifully:
Pragmatic language is the foundation of connection. It’s how we form friendships, navigate group settings, and understand the world around us. When we support children in developing these social skills, we’re helping them build confidence, empathy, and stronger relationships.
At Speakable, we believe communication is more than just words — it’s about connection.
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